Fox Valley Intergroup SAA

An opportunity to share in the hope of recovery from sexual addiction.

Who are we?
What is sex addiction?
Is there Hope?
Meeting Information
Continuing our Recovery
What is sex addiction?  
According to the definition found on Wikipedia, sexaul addiction refers to a phenomenon in which individuals report being unable to manage their sexual behavior. It has also been called "sexual dependency," and "sexual compulsivity."
We have come to learn that there is much more to it.
As taken from the ISO of SAA website:
"...sex addicts may act out sexually in many different ways, there are common elements that seem to characterize our addiction:
  • Powerlessness over addictive sexual behavior.
  • Resulting unmanageability of his/her life.
  • Feelings of shame, pain, and self-loathing.
  • Failed promises and attempts to stop acting out.
  • Preoccupation with sex leading to ritual.
  • Progressive worsening of negative consequences"

How do I know if I am an addict?

If you are asking the question, chances are you are an addict.  It never hurts to consult a therapist, but be sure to look for one who has a background in dealing with sex addiction.  There is also a Self Assessment tool on the ISO of SAA website that many of us have found enlightening.